Tuesday, June 15, 2010

News of My Mother Passing Away

Friday February 19

I went on the internet and after checking one email box I found it was real slow. So I went out to buy some things that we needed for home.


When I check my email I found I got a letter from Heather. She told me that our mother died at 2:00am. She sent the email about 5.30pm on Thursday and was referring to the early morning hours that day.


I broke into tears and cried right after I read the words that she died. I called Jayne where she came to hug me. There were tears in her eyes, too.


I wrote a letter back to ask for Heather’s phone number and that I would call her. She must have been online as I got an email with her number.


After I talked to Heather I called Sharon then Carol.


The conversation with Heather went something like this:


About 8:00am
Heather said that the funeral will be at Henry’s in Audubon (the town where my mother last had her home). It will be on Monday at 10am. The service will be at 11:00am then they will go to the cemetery near Lake View Hospital. From there they will go to The Pub. I asked Heather, a pub? Thinking it was cheap place to go, and she said that it’s a nice restaurant.


Heather said that she, Scott, her oldest (Daniel) and her youngest boy will go. They will leave Sunday, spend two nights in N.J.


She told me that Mom will be buried where her grandparents, the Biddel are. She said that two cousins are buried there who died in child birth.


She also told me some other family news. On her father’s side, she said that Johnny died a couple of years ago of lung cancer, that Aunt Dorothy died last Autumn (a first cousin of my grandmother, Nana). Then Ruth had a stroke last week. Johnny and Ruth is from my step-father’s first marriage.


She said that the obituary will be in the Courier-Post Saturday and that the notice cost over $300!


After a break and telling Jayne the news, I called Sharon.



The conversation with Sharon went something like this:


Sharon said that Mom died at 1:50am and was called by the nurse at 2:00am on Thursday. She said that she and Alan went to the hospice.


Sharon said that she and Carol visited my mother each day this past week. It was because they knew she was going to die soon. They had a catheter in her arm, and then the day before she died there was blood in it, later there was nothing in it.


I was told that John has bad knees and he hurt his back (taking down an inmate in jail where he works). Then Scott hurt his back shovelling snow. Alan has a bad knee. So that would just leave Douglas and Steve. She has to ask the funeral if they have someone that can carry the casket.


That’s a sham that so many young guys in our family have bone injuries.


I was told that the temperature will go up to 40F today, but there is still a lot of snow on the ground through all the streets have been cleared. Sharon said that there was still snow on the ground from December when the two heavy snow storms came this month.


I then talked to Jayne and told her what Sharon said.


The conversation with Carol went something like this:


Carol said that there will be enough pall bearers and they would only need one. So, she thinks that those with injuries will be able to carry the casket. She said that Steve will be coming with his girlfriend and spend the nights there.


She told me that Gammy (my great grandmother) and her husband bought two extra plots. They had their little boy and girl buried there and they are buried there. I think that Nana is buried there, too. They still had two extra lots and my mother had the deeds to them. So, she will be using one of them and there is one more left.


Carol said she plans to give an elegy for her sister and tell of the pranks she used to play and all the fun she was. She related one to me about when we rented a house in Cape May, NJ. And my Uncle Donald came. He is my mother and Carol’s brother. This was at a time when Steve was a baby. Uncle Donald went to the bathroom and saw ‘shite’ all over. He yelled, “Carol, Carol. What did you do, change the diaper in the dark. There is shit all over!” Well, my mother, June, and Carol and the rest of us laughed and laughed. What happened was she got some gram crackers, which are brown, soaked them in water and put them around the toilet seat and the floor. Of course, it didn’t stink but that is the power of suggestion. The power of suggestion or association or whatever, would actually produce the sensation that goes with ‘shite’.


So, it’s good that Carol will tell stories like that. She was such a fun-going person.


I told Carol that it would be 50 years this year that my father died.
Carol said that there will be about 25 people there.
After I got off the phone I told Jayne the conversation.


I said that I want to take a walk along the beach as this would be a nice peaceful place to be and reflex.


We walked along the beach and went to the Apollonia Hotel. This is a nice 5 star hotel where they have a nice seating area outside. We both had a cup of coffee there and had a nice talk. I took some pictures and had Jayne take some pictures of me. This will be a record of where I was on the day I heard the news that my mother died.


My Thoughts


I don’t know why Sharon couldn’t call me as soon as she got the news or at least call me later. It was 2:00am their time but it was 9:00am here. When Heather sent the email, it was on the 18th but with the time difference, I was already in bed. Besides, I don’t check the email every hour.


Who does?


Sharon brought up the fact that she has $700 of mine in a bank that is money left over from my grandmother, Mom-Mom. I had forgotten about it. She wanted to know my address so she could mail me the check. The story is, that she had said she would mail it years ago, but nothing.


More than coincidence


In the evening Jayne and I watch a video that I had bought about a week ago. I first put on a Bonanza film, but we saw that we had already seen it on a DVD we bought in Ecuador. So I put in Burns and Allen Show. We saw a couple of episodes. I noticed it was the year that I was born. On this show they incorporated the commercial in the show. The guy said the Carnation Milk Company will be having ad in Life Magazine on June 30th. He showed the can of condensed milk and the ad. We’ll the funny thing is, this was the day before I was born! Of course, this was a big day in the life of my dear mother. And she liked this show when it was on the air.


I’m glad that my mother did not pass away on her birthday nor during the two heavy snow storms they just had about one week and two weeks ago.

My Mother Passed Away

Thursday February 18


My Mother, June Lee, died on this day but I didn’t know it until the next day. (I’ll write about it in Feb. 19th entry.)


Jayne wanted to buy some brushes for her painting and wanted me to go along. We went to the old section of Limassol where she found some brushes. On way back we stopped in a store and we each bought a pair of shoes. This was not planned but it turned out that way. They were made in Cyprus.

$250,000

Tuesday February 16

What I didn’t write was that I had a Buyer for my house. The correspondence went on for about 10 days, I guess. He said he would pay $179,000 for the house and the lot next to it. He is a businessman from Hong Kong and said he will have his stock broker send a check to my lawyer.
All of this was strange, but it was welcomed. He didn’t see the house except on the website. Then he sent the check.

To make a long story short, the check was for more than the house – $250,000 plus! But I was told by Maria that she can’t deposit for a couple of reasons. One is that the Buyer’s name has to be on the check; Two, that she does not have an account in the name that he wrote it to (it’s just a trade name). And three, that a contract has to be written with his name on it to make it all legal.

When I wrote back to this Chong Lin and told him why my lawyer couldn’t deposit the check, I didn’t receive an answer for a couple of days. When he did write back he said he sorry he was out of town. He said since that is the case, the deal is off.

I had my doubts about him awhile ago. No one buys a house sight unseen, then to put not only the full amount but more than the house is worth (which I told him). It was just a way of him to laundry money.

Carol's Birthday

Wednesday February 10

I sent an email to my aunt as it’s her birthday today. She’s 70 years old!! I sent her a birthday card, too.

Now I have a paid program of Word – finally! All the other times I’ve been using Open Office, which is free, but what I found out was it’s a very unstable program. Usually at least once a day it encounters an error and it closes down. Now, I should not have that problem.

Monday, June 14, 2010

My Chinese Buyer

Friday February 5


I haven't heard from Maria, so I called her. She said that she read my email. She also suggested that I give this man (Chong Lin) her email address. Maria said that the tax on taking money outside of the country is 2%. She told he how she would set it up if he sent money to my bank in Cyprus.


I will have to write back to Chong and tell him this, so it will save us money and to call Maria.
This is really amazing, as Chong is willing to pay a good price and he hasn't even seen the property. He said he is 100% interested in the property. He said that he would like to have a base in Ecuador to ship things to his American clients.


As soon as this guy expressed serious interest in the property, I thought of someone from Asia that has a lot of money. In fact, it is someone from Asia (the email address showed asia-mail.com).


Another strange thing is, that he is wants to send the money before he gets there and before he looks at the property. I do have to say that I do have 20 pictures and a lot of description on the site, so he might feels confident.


I do wish him a lot of success with living in the house, or if he is going to have his regional manager living there, that he and his family have a nice time there.


Of course, it could be that he, like many other rich Asians are flush with money and want to put it in tangible assets before it becomes worthless. Also, to put it in investment outside of his own country.How often does someone get a Buyer that's to buy a house without seeing it and in fact, sending the money before he arrives. In fact, he hasn't even said if he wants someone to pick him up at the airport or if he has his own plans.


Since I have two sites on Viviun.com (one for the house and one for the flat), I thought I'd offer one to Angela.


After is sold the flat, I used the other site for the lot next to my house. I forgot to offer it to Angela back then, but now I will.Angela had wanted to sell her house for over a year now. There are too many steps to get to her house so she wants something all on one floor. I called her and explained to her that I would put the pictures and text on it and manage it. I told her that I think I have my house sold, and that I already sold the flat. I said that this would not cost her anything. I said that I already paid for the site, which would be good for a couple more months.


Angela said that I could meet her after bowling on Monday. Jayne will be bowling with her and the girls. Then she will take us to her house and I can take the pictures and the information that goes with it. She said she'll offer us tea while we are there. I hope that she will be able to sell her house and get a good price to boot.

Possible Sale of My House

Tuesday February 2

I got an email from someone who is interested in my house. I would not normally write this down, but since I'm writing this a few days later, I entered this information here, as a note of when this viewer first contacted me.

Wednesday February 3

This viewer of my website said he is serious about buying my house. I told him about a piece of ground that is next door and that the total price is listed is $189,000.
He asked how much I would take for it, and I said, “What do you think is a fair price?” He came back and offered $179,000. I agreed to this, but that if we could split the closing costs.

This is a great offer!

Thursday February 4

The Buyer's name is Chong Lin. He told me that he owns a company that sells construction machinery and that he is located in Hong Kong. In our corresponding to him, he said that his stock broker from America sold some stock for him and he would like him to send the money to my lawyer. He asked for my lawyer's address, of which I gave him.

I sent an email to Maria regarding this.

Friday February 5

I haven't heard from Maria, so I called her. She said that she read my email. She also suggested that I give this man (Chong Lin) her email address. Maria said that the tax on taking money outside of the country is 2%. She told he how she would set it up if he sent money to my bank in Cyprus.

I will have to write back to Chong and tell him this, so it will save us money and to call Maria.

This is really amazing, as Chong is willing to pay a good price and he hasn't even seen the property. He said he is 100% interested in the property. He said that he would like to have a base in Ecuador to ship things to his American clients.

As soon as this guy expressed serious interest in the property, I thought of someone from Asia that has a lot of money. In fact, it is someone from Asia (the email address showed asia-mail.com).

Another strange thing is, that he is wants to send the money before he gets there and before he looks at the property. I do have to say that I do have 20 pictures and a lot of description on the site, so he might feels confident.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

First Client (no charge)

Sunday January 31

I met my first client today. He responded to my ad and his name is Leon. He has Multiple Sclerosis.

I gave him a free introduction to EFT, of which I spent a little over 1.5 hours. He's got a lot of other emotional problems, too. I found this out by questioning him when we got started.

I worked on his fear of being lonely and it did go down. I told him what to do when he goes home and I also told him the price. He said that seemed fair.

There is a Health Festival coming up in March in Paphos. I got information on that from the organizer. I plan to have a table there. A small table will cost 80 euros and a large one 120 eruos at this two-day event.

Out With Friends

Saturday January 30

Jayne and I went to Peter and Anne's flat at 7.00pm to meet them and the others. Joan, Jan and Angela arrived after we did. We had drinks then went out to the restaurant for dinner. We went to a place called Michael's.

At Michael's, we were told they have good food at a very reasonable price. And they did. Most of us had fish 'n chips and the fish was good. They have fixed 3 course menu, too, which is only 6.50 euros. This included a salad, main course and dessert.
The owner came with a brandy for all of us – free of charge.

Then we walked to Chasers where Katrina played. This was the first time I had seen her since I left Cyprus nearly three years ago. We kissed and huged. She kissed Jayne first, then me. She never met Jayne but she was told that I got married.

We had a great time dancing. Angela, Joan and Jan left early, but Peter and Anne wanted to stay and we stayed with them. We were having too much fun to leave early.
I took pictures of Katrina playing. I saw that she made some CDs with her music, so I bought one.

We got home about 1.00am.

Money Transferred

Tuesday January 26

I got the money in my account from the sale of the apartment. I was pleasantly surprised, as Maria had written only yesterday that she sent the money and the bank told her I would receive it in 2-4 days. So in less than one day I got the money!

Wednesday January 27

Today my first ad appeared in Cyprus Mail in the classified section under Health. I will run for 5 weeks. The last week is free. The total cost was 64 euros and some change.

Thursday January 28

So far I haven't gotten one call from my ad.

Friday January 29

Again, still no calls from the ad. I do hope in time people will call. There are only a couple of ads under the Health section, so it's not because of competition. I used the wording that Gary Craig suggested that will pull in response.

Jan 19 - 25

Tuesday January 19

I went to down town Limassol to do some food shopping, while Jayne stayed home. She wanted to stay home in case the repairman comes.

Shortly after I got home, the repairman came. He finished most of the work.

Wednesday January 20 – 22

We did the final touches on straightening our our flat. We even got my things out of the suit cases and that I had when I was living in Cyprus a couple of years ago.

Saturday January 23

Yiannis came over for lunch. He was our first guest in our new flat. Jayne cooked fish, potatoes and salad. I also got Yiannis to take a picture of Jayne and I. We had a nice chat.

I got the DVD and the cable box to work, too. The cable TV only has a few channels as we don't have paid channels and don't plan to get any.

Sunday January 24

I got my VHS player out, too. Now we can see the old VHS tapes that I bought when I was here a couple of years ago. The player has not be used much. And the tapes are originals that I bougth from the video shop. Of course, they were on sales, as most VHS tapes are since no one is using that system now.

When we went to the British Legion Post last week, they have a library where you can take books out and they also have quite a collection of VHS tapes, too. The tapes have more interesting stories than the books. Now that I have my player, we'll be able to see them.

Monday January 25

The weather is still cloudy and chilly. One day last week we got a lot of rain the whole day, then another day we had a good bit of rain, too.

I went to Starbucks, as I have a couple of times already. I'm not going with my computer but just to read and write. The reason why I'm still going now and then is to hopefully meet John, the man who has successful internet websites. So far, I haven't seen him. He might not be back yet. Also, I'll have to go to the café in the afternoon, as that is when he might come.

Monday, January 18, 2010

I Got Internet!

Monday January 18

I was at Starbucks when the Cytanet man called to ask about the flat. As I left Starbucks I saw him in his car in front of the apartments.

Finally, I got connected. Hurray!!!

Now, I can do work from home, the connection would be faster, and I won't have to spend all that money.

I will go to Starbucks now and then to see people I know and to get out of the house, but it will be a lot less. The main person that I will be seeing will be John who has a successful internet business. He should be coming back from America soon and be telling about his cruise with other internet gurus and his travels in Florida.

The Repairman

Saturday January 16

The repairman was supposed to come today but he didn't. He didn't even call. What a way to run a business!


Sunday January 17

About noon the repairman showed up! He didn't even call and all he said was he was sorry that he didn't come. He didn't give an excuse. So, he worked one hour and said he had to return the shower curtain (as it was too small) and he had to get a step ladder to put the bulbs in. I told he he can stand on a chair, but that wouldn't d for him. He said he'd be back in a hour.

The repairman didn't come back in an hour – he didn't come back at all! Nor did he call.
What a crappy way to run a business. Actually, I guess he doesn't have a business because of this.

He did 'fix' the door. All he did was put oil in the metal that comes out of the door. I used 'fix' in quotes because I told him that if it's unlocked you still can't turn the knob from the outside. He told me it's a 'security feature'! I think that the people take this 'security feature' too far. What if you are in the hall talking to a friend and the wind closes the door. You are locked out! I hope he returns and can make the knob turn on the outside. I found out that you can turn the metal latch if you have the key, but the knob you can only push.

I had him buy about 10 bulbs and I said I would pay for it. He did bring them, but unless he asks for the money, I will not give it to him. If he does ask for the money, I will put this on the Owner's bill.I had thought about this after I told the repairman – why should I pay for the bulbs when the Owner should do so. It was the other Tenant that used the bulbs and not me. It only makes sense that, as a rule of doing good business, the Owner should replace all bad bulbs and have a couple in the cabinet for the new Tenants.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Moving In

By Richlion

Wednesday January 13

I went to Starbucks to see about the how the sale of my flat went. The internet is was not working. So, I typed this diary you see. Later, Tatiana came in and I told her the news and I told her where we will rent. I showed her the building (you can see it from Starbucks). She says she has a flat to rent, too. She said that it costs 650 euros/month but it's in bad condition.

This is very interesting to know. It shows the good buy that we got.

A few minutes later, Chris came in and said hello to me. He told me about another flat that was for rent that he was going to show me, which in the same area. He said that he found out it was rented already for 700 euros. I told him about the problems with it and it has mould. He didn't know that.

I offered to pay him some money and he would not take it. I just wanted to show my appreciation and of the money and agony he saved us by telling us of the area we were going to rent. I said I'd buy him a drink the next time he comes in.

I had a thought this morning and that is, having this apartment makes is special because of its location. Since it's on the main street, in a nice building, it makes it perfect for having clients come to our flat for EFT. Since the flat has nice furniture and also because it's big in size would be good to bring clients there. I taught many students in my flat in Russia, so why not help people with EFT.

Yianis had told me that his 1-bedroom flat rents for 470 euros, and there is one guy that pays 600 euros. So, it puts what we have in perspective of how good a deal we have. His place, of course, is with the same neighbourhood, neighbors, poor furniture and the noise in the area.
In the evening Yiannis took us to the owner's house where we signed the Ageement and the payment of 6,600 euros was paid for one year.


Thursday January 14

At 9am Jayne and I went out to get a taxi to take us to the electric company. We were told that the electric is already on, but we got it in our name. We were also told that there is a claim against the owner as the seal was broken on the heater unit (in the building but one that is associated to this flat).

I called Maria to tell her about this. I had also told the electric compnay that rthey didn't get a notice about it. She said that a letter will be sent out. However, we were able to get the electric in our name and no deposit had to be paid as Jayne is an EU citizen and it was put in her name. If it was in my name I would have to pay the deposit.

I went to the office to see Yainnis and pay him for the rent for the extra few days we stayed there. The told me to wait until the electric bill comes in and I can pay everyting at once. Then he offered to take us to have the phone/internet put in. this is great of him!

When we were there, Jayne told the woman what we want and we were told that a deposit had to be paid. Yiannis said that this is against the law, as EU citizens don't have to pay. She said that there are no exceptions. He said that Cypriots don't have to pay and she confirmed it. He said to pay it but we can sue them. Well, I wouldn't have said that, as she didn't like to hear that, but we went ahead to pay it.

There is a 100 euro deposit as well as the installation fee. The total I had to pay was 150 euros. I got the service that is 2 MB/second and it would cost 43 euros month. This is their second highest speed. There is one higher and two lower. She said that it can be changed without charge, then just pay the rate for that speed. It will be three business days before it is installed.
I got a wireless modem to take home. This is the company's, but it is given out to the customers.
When we got back, we continued packing and cleaning the flat.

The other day, Jim had offered to use his car to move our things. So we took him up on his offer. (Actually it's his brother's car.)

We loaded up the car and took our things over to the new flat. Then Jayne stayed behind and I got the rest of the things in the flat.

It was really nice of Jim to do this. We had planned to rent a car, so this saved us money the second time today (with Yiannis taking us to Cytanet (local telephone/internet company), this saved us money from getting a taxi).

Later I went to Starbucks to go on the internet to see about the sale of my flat in Ecuador. I got an email saying that it was delayed because the Buyer had brought a second check for the balance and it was not certified but he wanted the deed, and my lawyer, Maria del Carmen said no because if the check was no good, she would have no recourse to get the money from him and the deed couldn't be reversed.

How sneaky many Ecuadorian are!

Jayne and I had dinner with champagne to celebrate out being here.


Friday January 15

I got up about 7.30am. I went to the balcony to see where the sun would be on our new flat. It was partly cloudy but I still enjoyed it. As I sat there, I thought about the two buildings in front of me. They probably rent for more and sell for more, but I thought how much better Jayne and I were in our flats. For those that are facing us, they don't have what we have. They don't have the sun, the sea and a balcony to enjoy the weather. We have all three (there's a space between the two buildings).

As I was leaving to go to the café to go on the internet, I found out that the outside door knob does not turn. The metal that goes in the whole is still there, which means that I would not be able to get inside even though the door is unlock. That means that if Jayne and I both leave we would not be able to get inside.

When I got to the café, I called the owner and told her all the problems that there are. I said that the door is the most important one. She said she would send someone out.

The repairman finally got here at 5.30pm. I showed him all the things that needs repaired. As he was leaving he said that he would be here about noon tomorrow.

Angela had called earlier to invite us to go to dinner with the group and to see Katerina who plans at a hotel that night. I told her about the door and if it's repaired we'll go with them.

Apartment Hunting

Thursday January 7

(This has not been proof read.)

Jayne and I went apartment hunting. This time we went by bus to where the Four Seasons Hotel is and where there are other nice hotels. We looked at apartments there. We wrote down some phone numbers we saw. I also came across two estate agents that deals in rentals. We stopped in one and talked to the guy, but he couldn't find anything for us.

I called one number that I saw and talked to the woman. The flat sounds interesting.

We got home with nothing promising.

Yiannis invited us to come to his house for dinner. That was nice of him and it was a surprise. This is the first time since the New Year that I was able to see him.

Another couple came over, Aristos and his girlfriend and their daughter.



Friday January 8

At Starbucks I met two black guys and we got talking about the internet. One comes from a Dutch island in the Caribbean. The other is an American from Ohio.

Then this girl came over, whom I met at the café last month. Christy is also into alternative health. She came with her friend, Maria. We talked and I told her what I did and did a demonstration on her with her fear of roaches. She went from an 8 to 0 in a few minutes! Another success story.

There was another guy who came in, that i've seen there many times before. He knew one of the black guys (Gerald). I talked to this guy, who's name is Chris. As it turned out he is an estate agent. And it was his office that we've seen (but the office was closed). I told him about our needs and he thought of one place. He said it's near the San Rafael Hotel. Now, this place is outside of where all the other people live. However, he told me that buses still go by there.

He described this place and it's on the beach, has a garden outside the flat, and has full sea view. It's one bedroom.

Later, I called Chris and asked him to ask the landlady that we are willing to pay one year in advance for less money. Instead of paying 650 euros/mo. We'd pay 550.

He got back to me later to say she said OK, but there is a tenant in there now and they won't be out until February 1.

This woman, Natasha, who owns the flat that we want to look at said that she would like to show the flat to us. I told her that we have plans to see another flat Tuesday, but I thought that there would be no harm in looking.

Saturday January 9

Natasha came and picked me up at Starbucks and we went so I could pick up Jayne. We all went to see her flat. It looked nice and was lower on the hill than I remembered. There is also a mini food market there, which is important to us. It's on the first floor (second by American standards). It's two bedrooms, about 90 sq. meters total. Has a nice terrace with views of the sea. The kitchen it big. This is completely furnished with kitchen appliances.

She also agreed to a lower price if I paid up front. In short, we would pay 6,500 euros for one year, which works out to about 541 euors/mo. And this included common expenses. The other expenses would be electric, water, and internet (when I get it).


Sunday January 10

On the internet, I got the standard contract that Natasha mailed to me. I looked over and made some comments. I sent this back to her and she called me so we could discuss this. She agreed with my points.

There are some things that we important that were not in there. She agreed with them and said she'd make changes.

It looks like we will be meeting her Monday evening, where we will be signing the Agreement and the keys will be handed over.

Jayne will have to go to the local bank here and transfer money from one account to another, so she can write out the check. And I will have to go to the car rental place to get a car so we can move. I'll rent the car for at least a couple of days. I just need it really for one day, but it would cost more to rent. In the meantime, I could use the car for other things, such as taking Jayne's computer to the store, and doing some shopping at Debimhams.


Monday January 11

I think that an Angel was watching over us. Today I met the other real estate agent at the café (that I met and talked to a week ago) about showing us a flat. Then I told him that we found another flat and we would not be looking at the one he wants to show us. Today I told him where it is, which is right in back of his office.

What he told me was that there is a lot of noise there. There is noise from the street and from the gas station. He said that at night young people skid around in their cars in the lot there, and you can hear the car washing machine, too. Then he said that there is usually an accident at the intersection once every day! His office is right there, and when there is an accident, he always gets a call from the police that ask if it's bad and if they need to bring an ambulance. So they know before they come out. He says he hates it, because as soon as there is an accident he sneaks out of the office and drives off so he doesn't have to talk to the police or give testimony as a witness. Can you image in that! If it was in a movie it would be comical.

The flat that he will be showing us is further out by 3 minutes, but he said that it quite there, it's right across the sea (sea view from the flat), when you walk out of the balcony there's a garden, and they also have a swimming pool.

It really sounds nice.

Well be seeing the flat tomorrow, so I plan to send you pictures the day after tomorrow (hope you have time to look at them ).

The flat is the same price as the one that we looked out Saturday. To get this lower price we would have to pay for a full year, but if there is no noise there, that would be fine. The only “noise” would be from the sea, and that would be great! The sounds of the sea is soothing for humans.

If we moved into this flat where there is a lot of noise, we would have paid a year in advance, too. But had we moved in, and Jayne would not be able to sleep, it would affect her health. If we moved out earlier to some other place, we would have lost the rest of the money.

That's it for the flat news.

I met with Yiannis later and he told me about anohter flat. I told him we can still take a look at it after I see the one tomorrow. He seems to think that paying 550 euros a month is too much. I told him that is all we found, if there are some cheaper, where are they?

Yiannis called the woman who owns the flat that he looked at for us before we came here. As it turns out this flat is still available. However, they want 600 or 650 (Yiannis isn't sure). Again, this is more than what I'm looking at. So, I'm still right in that I haven't found a nice flat for less than 550.

When Yiannis called he said he talked to the woman and said he'll give her my phone number but the plans are that we will meet tomorrow about 11 or 11.30am (after I see the other flat).

Now, if this woman went down to 550 when we first came here, she would have already had four months rent or more than 2,000 euros. If she finds someone this month to rent it for a year at her 650/mo or even 600/mo she would still have lost money in a year. I was told she is rich, but she still lost money.

Some people are good at making money, but they are not good at investing. There are a lot of people like that, and as a result, they are not as rich as they could be!


Tuesday January 12

Checking Rental Properties

I went to Starbucks first, as Jayne wasn't ready. I wanted to go early so I could go on the internet before we met Chris. As it turned out, he was already there with his wife. Chris was here for awhile then he must have left and called me on the phone to say that the owner would not be there until 10.30am, so we can meet at 10.15.

Jayne came over, then we went to see Chris who was with his wife. I think her name is Kleo. Then the three of us went in his car to see the flat.

It was not as I pictured. But what pictures we get in our minds has nothing to do with what is told us. Anyhow, it is located near the hotel San Rafael. This is build up area, too. I never realized it, though I had driven past this a couple of years ago.

Anyhow, we met the English lady owner. The current tenant is still in there, who is an Asian. I guess her husband is, too.

The flat is on the ground floor and is only one bedroom and kind of small. There is a patio with a garden and in front of that is the community swimming pool.

Now for the problems with the flat.

I smelled something, which I thought was from the swimming pool, but Jayne said later that it's mildew. She saw black on the curtains and around one door frame.

I noticed right away noise from the traffic. As I saw from the back that the main highway is 150 meters away!

The woman wants 550 euros of month – that's with our offer of paying one year in advance.

Right away we will not take this, but we didn't tell Chris that. We just told him of the problems, so he would put two-and-two together. When we left he drove around the area to show us that there are bus stops there and that is a mini-market (looks like they would just sell canned goods).

Then he drove us back to Starbucks. Jayne and I went back there to discuss the problems. When she went to the toilet, I was in line to order something. I saw this woman come in, and I remembered her. I smiled and she did, too.

When Jayne and I were sitting outside, this other woman and her friend were sitting at another table.

I told Jayne that I know her and she's Russian and deals in real estate. So, I went to her and introduced myself. She recalls seeing me before but can't place it. I reminded her. She didn't know Yiannis or her being in my flat to use my internet. Anyhow, I said to her, 'It looks like the angel is looking down on me.' And I went on to explain that we are looking for a flat and just looked at one now.

This woman's name is Tatiana and I gave her my phone number and what we are looking for.

Then I called Yiannis to tell him if he had called the woman about the flat. Yiannis knows this rich lawyer who owns a flat that is near Starbucks and she was to call me, but I didn't receive any call. He had talked to her yesterday and told her that I would like to look at it.

He said he'll call her.

A short while later Yiannis called me back to say that he got the keys to her flat and will show it to us. About 10 minutes later he drove up and pulled into the driveway. We saw him after he got out of his car and yelled to us. We went over while he parked the car.

The apartment is real nice. The furniture is real nice, too. It has two bedrooms, kitchen, dinning area, living room and a big balcony. It's on the third floor (fourth in America). The view is mostly of another building in the back but you can see a little of the sea, too, which is nice.

We listened for the noise on the balcony and inside, and there wasn't any! Thank God! Though the flat is on the main street, it's in the back so you don't hear the noise.

When I opened the small bathroom window I could see the green canopy of Starbucks. The ground floor of the building has a jewellery store and the elevator that you go in is very nice, too. There is a wooden plank that you often see in parking lots. This is what this apartment has and it's opened by remote control.

The building looks well kept. And the fact that it's close to everything makes it great. Now we have to discuss the price

Later in the day, Yiannis called the owner, Maria, about the price. Actually, the lawyer is her husband and she owns the flat, as I understand it.

When Yiannis first enquired about the flat she wanted 700 euors. I guess that is what she got from the past tenant. She had already gone down to, I think, 600 back in September. We didn't see, but we thought we could get something a lot cheaper. As it turned out, it has been sitting empty these past four months.

Yiannis said that we would pay 550 euros and we would pay for a whole year in advance. She agreed to this on the phone.

Back to right before Yiannis called her, I got a call from Tatiana to say she found a one-bedroom flat for 450 euros in a quite are. So, we made plans to meet at 5.15pm.

Now, we have to see the woman and her husband at 4.00pm. I should have told him that we have another place to look at, but I didn't. I think it's a good thing that I didn't since they might have backed out of the deal had I told them.

We needed to take our passports with us so the husband could write it down to put in the Agreement.

They live near where Yiannis lives. He told us they are rich and that they don't need to rent it out. They did him a favour by going down in price. We appreciate all of this. There home is beautiful. It looks like they have a formal living and dinning room. Then there is the informal dinning room and TV room. It looks like there are servants quarters in the back and there is a small swimming pool, too. When you enter there is a lobby with a nice staircase. Outside they have a balcony.

It looks like we will be moving in in two days. That would be Thursday January 14.

We were very pleased with what we saw. But we should keep the other appointment. This would be a savings of 100 euros a month if the 1 bedroom flat is nice. What we just saw was a two bedroom flat.

We met Tatiana outside of Starbucks. We got in her car, which was very nice and expensive. I think it's a Hunda SUV. We went to a street right near the Valana. The street is in back of the English Russian children's school. Well, the street and the flats on it are very nice. The street is a dead-end, so it makes it quieter.

The flat has one bedroom in the back with a kitchen in the middled and a counter separating it from the living room. However, everything was very small. I would not be surprised that the living room is a square 3 meters by 3 meters (3.5 meters maximum).

This is much too small for us. In fact, I would feel like we had more more where we are now.

I asked about a two bedroom and she made a call and took us to a place. This place is right next door to the supermarket that we use all the time.

This other flat is in old flat. One guy who entered right before us looks like an Arab construction worker that lives right across from where we looked at.

The owner came a few minutes later along with two workers. The flat is being remodelled now.

The building that the flat is in in not nice. It looks like there would be the same kind of neighbours that we have now. The flat has very poor furniture in it. Jayne had seen some roaches, and it's in the same neighbourhood. It's big inside, but it's not nice.

This flat looks like a good one for Jim and Vivian, who are neighbours of ours. They are looking, too. Jim is Irish and Vivian is Philodendron (Asian).

I told Tatiana about Jim and she didn't have time to show it to him. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me.

We took Jim over to see it, and he liked it. Then he went to get Vivian to look at it, but when they went over there, the owner was gone.

So, ends our busy day of apartment hunting. It looks like we'll be in the flat of friends of Yiannis. Hurry and I thank the messenger (angle) of God!

Jayne didn't feel like cooking so we went out to eat. We ate a small place nearby that we haven't eaten at before. We had fish maze. It was very good! The cost for two was 25 euros. The owner happened to live in South Africa and had some restaurants there. I think that his ex-wife was Afrikaner (white). We had a nice chat with Christos.

Looking back

Yiannis had offer to look for a flat for us before we arrived in Cyprus. He said he knows a good friend that has a flat (the one we will finally be moving in). I think the lowest he got was 650 euros and he said they might go down to 600 euors. Well, we didn't even look at it as we thought we could get a flat cheaper.

He said that the owner is a lawyer and he is rich, so doesn't need the money. Well, as it turned out if they were willing to take 550 euros when we arrived they would have made more money. If we rented it when we came they would have gotten 2,200 euros already. They lost this money all for 50euros a month difference.

This goes to prove what I've said for a long time now. That a person might be rich but doesn't mean they do everything right. There are a lot of people who make good money but they don't know how to make their money make money. It's a two-step system. Even billionaires have made mistakes like this.

In the news in the past year there are articles about how many billions that Gates, Warren Buffet, and also Russian billionaires have lost money. They lost in in the stock market.

When someone says, “They are rich, they don't need the money.” But I say, why lose money? In this case, IF they woman really doesn't need the money then WHY didn't she go down in price. After all, it's just 50 euros a month.

The woman who owns the flat, didn't even put it on the market, which she could have.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

New Year 2010

30 December

I found out on the internet that Club 71 has a New Year's Party that includes cold food and all you can drink for only 30 euros. I'll have to check that out and see if Angela wants to go with us.
I called Yiannis about Club 71 and the price. He didn't seem too keen on it, so I left it at that. I called Angela about it and that the price is the cheapest we'd see for NY. She said that she will stay home for the night and so will Jan. She doesn't like the idea of the drunks on the road and having to drive.

So, Jayne and I decided to stay home ourselves. We will spend the money on food and drinks and have a nice quite evening at home.

New Year's Eve

Thursday 31 December

We went to the food stores to buy what we need. Then we stopped at a restaurant to have a cup of coffee.

We had a nice dinner of shrimp, salad and boiled potato. We also had Amurula, which is made in South Africa. It like Baileys Cream Whisky. We watch two films on the computer that Jayne had bought about two weeks ago.

New Year Day 2010

1 January

At midnight, we saw fireworks from our balcony (what could be better than that?). We also heard a group of people cheering outside. This must have come from Club 71.

The difference between here and Ecuador is the fireworks started in Cyprus at midnight and wasn't all day long.

Day After Christmas

Picture: Taken Christmas morning. Jayne and Craig with a nice German couple we met, Edith and Hans-Jorg.

26 December


I got up at 8am. And I woke Jayne up after I got ready. We got to the restaurant about 9am.
I saw the Hans and Edith come in and I went to them to tell them where we are sitting. We had a nice talk again. Then I gave them the DVD that I made.


Then we sat outside, where Jayne had her cigarette. After that, we said our goodbyes, but said let's meet before they leave. I said we can meet at Starbucks. I think they are staying until January 6th. Hans has my phone number so, I do hope we meet again. Edith kissed me and Jayne.


We took the taxi that's at the hotel home, but this cost us about 2 eruos more. I thought it would as all hotel taxis charge more. I could have called the same guy but we would probably have waited 20 minutes, as I'm sure he's busy.


We didn't like to be in the flat. We both look forward to moving to a nicer flat and in a nice location than where we are now. And of course, living in building where the neighbours are quite and it's not next to a hotel.


I downloaded the pictures that I took and made some of them small so I can send them tomorrow via email.

Christmas Night


part 2 (of 2)
Back at the hotel, we had a coffee there.


Back in the room, I called my family. First I tried to call my Mother but there was no answer. So, I guess she just didn't hear it, which Carol told me was the problem. It does ring but she doesn't hear it.


I wonder if I will every be able to speak to my Mother again. It is a sad situation.


I called Carol's home, and Heather answered it. The time was about 12.15am. I talked to Heather, then Carol, John, then Sharon. I told them some other part of our news, so everyone doesn't have the same story to pass around. Plus, I heard about the news from each one of them.
It was good to talk to them. After the call on my cell phone, which must have lasted 15 minutes at least, I saw that the call was only 2.58 euros. International calls on a cell phone is cheap. Jayne said it's cheap to England, too. Well, I knew this years ago when I called Russia often.


That was our Christmas Day.

Christmas Day


Anniversary of Our Meeting


part 1


I woke up first at 6.15am and the sky was just getting light. I went back to sleep and got up at 8am. I then got ready and woke Jayne up. Since breakfast ends at 10am, it's good to be there at 9am.


I put a gift down on the night table and on the writing table for Jayne. And Jayne reached into the suitcase and gave me a gift, too.


What I gave her was two of the gifts and saved the other one for tonight.


When we entered we were given a class of champagne. We saw Hans and Edith (the German couple) there. They had just got there themselves. So, we had a nice conversation.


After breakfast we went outside and talked at a table.


The weather today has light clouds, but the sun was still shinning.


Back in our room, Jayne wanted to lay down.


What I did was, first I called Angela and wished her a Merry Christmas (knowing that she is home by herself). Then I made a DVD for the couple we met, as I said I would. I also made a DVD for the manager as I said I would. Then I made one for Angela of the pictures I took the few months. Some of them were of her. I also put on the disk the pictures/videos I took last night.


Then, I went down to the piano bar and typed what you are reading now. Jayne was still asleep when I left. Since I have a lot to write, and want to enjoy the hotel, I thought I'd do this.


I found a seat near an outlet to plug my computer in.


After my typing I went upstairs to get ready.


We got ready just in time and when we went downstairs, Angela was already there. She had picked up Jan first before coming to the hotel and Jan was in the lobby looking for us.


We were the first ones in the dinning hall. The dinner starts 7.30 and we got there about 7.15. but shortly after we arrived some other guests arrived, too.


I ordered a bottle of white wine for the whole table; had our pictures taken and chatted a bit. The woman singer and gentleman who sings and plays the keyboard were getting ready.


The buffet was in the next room which is like a hall, so it's perfect for buffet displays.


The meal was nice, with salads, shrimp, etc. the hot portion was meat, vegetables but no fish. So I made do with what was there and was happy. The food was not as lavish as the Miramare but they were more expensive, too. The cost of the meal without drinks was 30 euros each.


The singers sang all Greek songs. So we didn't care for that. It looked like the guests were all Cypriots, so many that is why.


We were eating while the singing was going on. Then the magician act came on where there was a man and a woman. The show was very good but it was short. I filmed nearly everything on video.


Then the singing started again. After hearing one Greek song after another, Angela asked the head waiter if they could sing something in English. After a little while she did. With the first song, Jayne and I danced. The second song, Angela and I danced. These were slow songs.
Later, they play a twist song, so Angela and I danced. I think this is the first time that Jayne saw me jive. The crowd seemed to like what we did as there was an applause afterwards that was not like the little clapping that the singers go.


The woman singers was quite good by the way.


When Angela and I were dancing, some old fat guy came up to Jayne to ask her to dance. She seemed to have a little conversation with him. Angela and I were laughing from the dance floor. Finally, Jayne and this guy went to the dance floor. This guy had a big belly and his shirt was wrinkled and hanging out the back.


I wish I had the camera for that.


Later, Jayne and Jan went out to the rest-rooms. Angela and I got up as they played another song we could dance to. The musician played Tom Jones 'Sex Bomb'.


Then I innocently took off my jacket and Angela was laughing. I took off my tie, too. (You know, it gets hot dancing.) Well, the crowd started laughing, and Angela turned her body away from me. Then I unbuttoned my shirt.


With all the food that we ate, my waist-line got a little bigger, so I had to take off my belt. By this time some people were taking pictures. At this time, Jayne comes walking in. She gave a non-serious look and went up to the dance floor and started to button my shirt up.


I gave her my tie and jacket.


The guests, I'm sure by now knew that Jayne was my wife.


I got a good applause when we left the dance floor. Jayne said to take a bow, and I did. I also held out my hand as it to say, 'Donations are appreciated.'


We stayed to about 11.30pm.


When I went to pay the bill, the woman brought it over and I saw that the total for the four of us was 161 euros. The cost of each meal was 30, then there was the local wine which was 18 euros, the coffee and koinak.


When the woman brought the machine for the card, it said the battery was low. She said if you want to leave a tip, enter it. Well, I did, though we paid a lot for everything. As it turned out, it couldn't process the card. I guess because of the battery low. So, she went to the reception and got another machine. This time, it didn't go to the place where you enter a tip. So, I didn't enter one. This little waiting was worth it as it saved me 15 euros.


Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Pictures of Christmas Eve, pt 1



Top: Picture with the chef, taken by the restaurant manager. The manager came up with the idea and insisted to take the picture. (I made a copy for the pictures I took and gave it to the hotel.)
Bottom: Jayne

Dinner on Christmas Eve

Having Dinner at the hotel

When we went to get our food, I took my camera to take some pictures. One guy, who might have been the manager, asked if I wanted to take a picture of the chef. I said, 'He's too busy. I can't do that.' He said, 'No problem. He likes his picture taken.'

Not only did he get the head chef, but he said, 'Would you like to have your picture taken with him?' I said yes, of course. Seeing that I was with my wife, he took my camera and we had our pictures taken with him.

How nice! I was really surprised. Something like this wasn't even in my dreams. It goes to show that sometimes you get more than you ask for. It was a humbling experience. And I was honoured to have our pictures taken with him. I guess the guests thought we were some big-wigs.

Again, I think of how the Angels looked down on us and gave us all these blessings. We were put front, close to the dance floor and close to take good pictures from out seat and sitting next to a good couple.

As it turned out the German couple and us were the only ones dancing! There were about 4-6 other people (maximum) dancing. I don't know why people don't dance. The crowd was of mixed age, but few dancers.

I also noticed that most of the people left while there was still an hour or so for the music to play. When we left, which was about 10.30pm there wasn't many people in there and the singers were still playing. Normally, entertainment ends first and the people stay for 15 to 30 minutes more.
Jayne and I went to the piano bar. In the lobby and piano bar there were many people, and the woman that must have started at 7pm was till playing. We stayed until 11pm and left for our room.

It was a wonderful Christmas Eve.